Are we only queer when we have sex?

🌈 Too often, queer identity gets reduced to hookups, stereotypes, and hypersexual tropes — but is that really who we are? In this unfiltered episode of Chai Me a River, Shane takes on the catch-22 of queer identity: how society boxes us into being “too sexual” or “not queer enough” if sex isn’t part of our story. From labels and politics to intimacy, chosen family, and what it really means to live authentically, this conversation peels back the layers of identity beyond the bedroom.

💬 Topics we spill tea on:

• The myth that queer = only about sex
• What makes us “queer enough”
• How intimacy, love, and culture shape identity
• Breaking free from stereotypes and heteronormative expectations

This one’s for the girls, gays, theys, and allies questioning what queer identity really means in 2025.

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